Guest blog. All comments are appreciated.
When Worlds Collide: Discovering The
Callings
Eleanor McKenzie
Let me first explain. I am a Northern Irish
writer living in southern Spain; half a world away from Louisiana. I teach part
time, and a few weeks ago, a former employer, Demand Media Studios based in San
Francisco, invited me to return to write for them. I accepted. Employment and
money are in short supply in Spain, which is yet another country battered by
the Euro crisis.
The first article I picked up was titled
“Characters in Loretta Theriot’s ‘The Callings’,” a book co-authored with Mary S. Palmer. I’ve
written several literature articles for Demand’s eHow site, so I went straight
to Google and started searching. That’s when I found Mary S. Palmer and our
worlds collided. In a good way. I would rarely contact an
author, but on this occasion I decided to do it, mostly because I couldn’t find
enough information on the web. Mary was so helpful I was able to write an article
just from her notes.
The most striking thing about my contact
with Mary is the parallel between the story she and Loretta Theriot tell in
“The Callings” and an article I wrote back in 2004 about a young man in Oregon
called Jordan, who found himself in a similar situation to Bobby, one of the
main characters in Mary’s story. Both were juveniles when they were given
sentences for murder and sent to adult penitentiaries. Both were troubled
youths, and both had problematic fathers. In Bobby’s case, the father appears
to be a cruel, controller. In Jordan Merrell’s case, his father was a
professional lawyer who, following a
stint in Vietnam, had a diagnosis of PTSD that he never recovered from. Jordan
was an adopted child and his father used him as the target of his frustrations.
Mary and Loretta’s book has another
character, Robert, who goes to the same school as Bobby and grew up in the same
parish (county), yet he became a priest. “The Callings” poses the question: how
can two people from a similar background and the same place have two such
different life paths. This question taxes sociologists, psychologists and
educationalists everywhere. The answer is not easy, nor is it simple. So many
factors are involved. Individual choices and responses to your environment are
the key.
And then it occurred to me this morning:
look at Cain and Abel; same parents, very different boys. What insight does the
bible want us to take from this story? I know the main one I take is that it is
personal choice that leads us to harm ourselves and others. Parents and family
may contribute, but evil people also come from stable families.
I hesitate to use the term “evil,” it is a
word that seems so damning that there is no way back from it, and once uttered
– or written - it hangs there, brooding, dark and unforgiving. Yet sometimes
“bad” doesn’t quite hack it. I am not a church-going Christian, but as I wrote
to Mary, my belief in God is solid. I’m not so sure about an entity called the
Devil. But then, if I think of God as a divine energy, it makes some sense to
name the dark, negative energy I know exists, “the Devil.” I choose Light, but I know many who are
inexorably drawn to darkness.
I’m still waiting for my article to be
published on eHow, so that all Mary’s fans can go and have a read. I also hope that the article might bring “The
Callings” a bigger audience and make more people consider this issue of choice.
Do some people have no choice? Or do we always have a choice? I’d be interested
to hear what some of you think. ++
There is always a choice. Even if you choose NOT to make a choice, it's still a choice. Choices either make or break us, and change our lives for the better or worse. Great post! Tweeted and shared!
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